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What My Father and I Don't Talk About

Read by Raquel Beattie, Cassandra Campbell, Krystal Hammond, Soneela Nankani, André Santana, Suehyla El-Attar Young and Michele Filgate

About The Book

A follow-up to the wildly successful What My Mother and I Don’t Talk About, this collection of essays from sixteen notable writers breaks the silence on the complex—and sometimes contentious—relationships we have with our fathers.

What My Mother and I Don’t Talk About has become a rare gem in the literary world. Both a viral sensation online and chosen by Oprah Daily as one of the best nonfiction books of the past two decades, it is an essential collection that dives into the personal and poignant topics we often struggle to discuss with those who are meant to know and love us best.

This captivating follow-up, edited by Michele Filgate, tackles the intricate and challenging relationships we have with our dads, breaking the silence around these vital connections. Andrew Altschul reflects on the life-altering experience of becoming a father and how it reshaped his view of his own dad’s parenting. Isle McElroy shares memories of weekends spent tagging along as their father fixed up the homes of their wealthier neighbors. Jaquira Díaz delves into her father’s history in 1970s Williamsburg, uncovering the roots of their shared restlessness. Tomás Q. Morín paints a raw portrait of an absentee father, while Kelly McMasters portrays a loving and dedicated one. Maurice Carlos Ruffin insightfully captures a father who communicated through his integrity rather than words. Jiordan Castle reveals how we can love our fathers from a distance and Susan Muaddi Darraj explores the particular challenges of “eldest daughter syndrome” as a daughter of Palestinian immigrants.

With moments that are both humorous and deeply moving, this anthology is the second act that many have been eagerly waiting for.

Contributions by Michele Filgate, Andrew Altschul, Alex Marzano-Lesnevich, Maurice Carlos Ruffin, Dylan Landis, Jaquira Díaz, Kelly McMasters, Isle McElroy, Susan Muaddi Darraj, Tomás Q. Morín, Robin Reif, Heather Sellers, Jiordan Castle, Nayomi Munaweera, Joanna Rakoff, and Julie Buntin.

Appearances

APR 27
0:00:00
in person
Los Angeles Times Festival of Books
In Person
Panel on essay collections, moderated by Bonnie Nadell featuring Michele Filgate, Jordan Blumetti, and Dinah Lenney.
University of Southern California campus
Los Angeles, CA 90089
MAY 3
10:30:00
in person
Open Secrets Live
In Person
Panel moderated by Rachel Kramer Bussel featuring Andrea King Collier, Michele Filgate, Ellen Friedrichs, Aymann Ismail, Tracy O’Neill, and Alex Segura.
76th St and York Avenue
New York, NY 10021
MAY 6
19:00:00
in person
Books Are Magic
In Person
Panel moderated by Denne Michele Norris featuring Michele Filgate, Isle McElroy, and Jaquira Diaz.
122 Montague St
Brooklyn, NY 11201

About The Author

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Michele Filgate

Michele Filgate is the editor of What My Mother and I Don’t Talk About and What My Father and I Don’t Talk About. Her writing has appeared in Longreads, Poets & Writers, The Washington Post, Los Angeles Times, The Boston Globe, The Paris Review Daily, Tin House, Gulf Coast, Oprah Daily, and many other publications. She received her MFA in Fiction from NYU, where she was the recipient of the Stein Fellowship.

About The Readers

Raquel Beattie

Cassandra Campbell

Krystal Hammond

Soneela Nankani

André Santana

Suehyla El-Attar Young

Sylvie Rosokoff
Michele Filgate

Michele Filgate is the editor of What My Mother and I Don’t Talk About and What My Father and I Don’t Talk About. Her writing has appeared in Longreads, Poets & Writers, The Washington Post, Los Angeles Times, The Boston Globe, The Paris Review Daily, Tin House, Gulf Coast, Oprah Daily, and many other publications. She received her MFA in Fiction from NYU, where she was the recipient of the Stein Fellowship.

Product Details

  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster Audio (May 6, 2025)
  • Runtime: 9 hours and 12 minutes
  • ISBN13: 9781797194264

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